Wednesday, May 24, 2017

OVERPARENTING: HELICOPTERS, SNOWPLAUGHS AND BUBBLE -WRAPPERS


The MacMillan dictionary defines overparenting as being so worried about the safety or success of your children that you do too many things for them and prevent them from being independent” The Independent was referring to overparenting in their 2008 article when they wrote 'Over-parenting is the curse of our time … Can you hear that low whirr above our school playgrounds? … the after-effects of Britain's helicopter parents, who hover over their kids, ready to swoop when any risk or stress or spontaneity strikes.' Do your research and find out more about the issue then write an essay where you discuss the different parenting styles and their effects.
Familiarize yourself with the issue:
·         Real Time with Bill Maher: Helicopter Parenting  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rl9RK2AnXOk
Reading material to make notes on
·         Helicopter, Snowplough & Bubble-Wrap Parenting https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/why-we-worry/201705/helicopter-snowplough-bubble-wrap-parenting
·         5 Signs of overparenting http://people.howstuffworks.com/5-signs-of-overparenting.htm (Remember to click “next” and read the whole article)
Videos to take notes from
·         Eye on Parenting: "Helicopter" Parents https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjJbc9qKMjg
·         How to Land Your Kid in Therapy: Over-Parenting and Its Perils https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujQ-gxz7ThE
·         Eye on Parenting: "Helicopter" Parents https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjJbc9qKMjg


Tuesday, May 23, 2017

INSULTS AND HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM


Recently belittling comments have become the norm as politicians trade insults on social media or on air. Why do people insult others and how can people best deal with insults? Do your research and find out. When you are ready, write an essay where you discuss both the reasons and the solutions.
Familiarize yourself with the issues:
·         How To Respond To Insults - Q&A Episode #1
Reading material to make notes on:
·         The psychology of insults http://theconversation.com/the-psychology-of-insults-71738
·         Why insults and why they shouldn’t http://ideas.time.com/2013/03/08/why-insults-hurt-and-why-they-shouldnt/
Videos to take notes from:
·         How to deal with people that insult you who can't get away from; like family members! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhNv0Z8JXhQ
·         How to get over someone insulting/humiliating you and move on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqWmKJIc37g
·         How to handle someone who insults you but disguises it as a joke https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zStPQF2lW7Y

·         How to respond to someone who is insulting you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABzAaDsFIvU 

Monday, May 22, 2017

THE EVERYDAY HABITS THAT REVEAL OUR PERSONALITIES


“From dining on spicy food to singing in the shower, seemingly innocuous behaviors may say a lot about your character”
By: Christian Jarett
Level of Difficulty: *

NOTE TO THE STUDENT AND/OR TEACHER
One thing any proficient reader needs to be able to do is interpret what he is reading while he reads. He needs to be able to draw conclusions, make predictions, analyze and go beyond the text. It is a mistake to assume every learner does this automatically; my experience as a teacher has been that they don’t – strange though it may seem – yet learn they must. This reading task has been especially designed as a gentle introduction to these reading skills. That is to say, the student will be required to interpret but the interpretations will be obvious.

BEFORE YOU READ
Take the test http://personality-testing.info/
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QUESTIONS
1.       Which paragraphs constitute the introduction? Read the section and answer the questions:
·         What is the significance of people’s personality?
·         People’s personality can be very revealing on a completely different level because…………………..
2.       Which paragraphs constitute the first section of the development? Read the section and  answer the questions:
·         Further research into personality came up with some comical/ surprising/amazing/ interesting results. Mark the one that doesn’t fit.
·         Which of the activities linked to extraverts seems more unexpected? Why?
·         Why do you think conservative people avoid chewing a pencil?
·         Why do you think agreeable people were more likely to sing in the shower?
·         Which of the activities linked to open mindedness seems hardest to explain?
3.       Which paragraphs constitute the second section of the development? Read the section and answer the questions:
·         The study described so far is not conclusive for two reasons: firstly, it only covers…….and not………………; secondly,……………………………
·         Look at the findings from previous studies listed in the first paragraph of this section. Which personality - behavior correlate do you find hardest to explain in total?
·         Why do you think those with dark triad personality traits maintain unusually long eye contact?
4.       Read the conclusion of the text and answer the questions:
·         What possible future application of behavioral correlates could be useful?
·         What possible future application of behavioral correlates seems scary?
·         The last paragraph seems to make light of / explain clearly / poke fun at / make fun of all that has been mentioned in the text.
WRITING TASK: DESCRIPTION OF A PERSON
Draw on all you have learnt to compare and contrast the personalities of two people you know well. Remember to have a topic sentence such as the following:
·         My twin and I are very similar physically but we are completely different in terms of personality and typical activities
THE EVERYDAY HABITS THAT REVEAL OUR PERSONALITIES KEY AND TEACHERS’ NOTES
This is a reading task with a very special purpose: encouraging students to think as they read. Some students of mine have told me they either answer questions or think, not both. How they manage is beyond me but that they have to learn to multitask if you like is obvious. This text comes with a set of questions that addresses this need. Another advantage is that the text focuses on describing people; a topic that comes up very early in the year in any writing syllabus worth its salt. So two birds with one stone…
1.       The first two paragraphs /It tells them about the kind of lives they are likely to lead / It correlates with the kind of things they get up to on a mundane daily basis.
2.       (In this section, your answer needs to fit with the answer in the key meaning wise but you may not express it in the same way.) Begins: While it goes without saying…and ends: ….less likely to follow a sports team / Comical/ Getting a tan, it is a solitary activity, it involves lying around in the sun or a sun bed/ It indicates confusion, stress, not knowing what to do and the like. These are not personality traits associated with such people. / They didn’t have to be agreeable to anyone there; they could completely let go / Eating spicy food at breakfast
3.       Begins: This study is impressive…and ends …having their pleasure in mind / US, other cultures around the world; there remain many thousands of other daily behaviors to be looked at /  Open-mindedness and its behavior correlates / They are very confident and they wish to control, influence and manipulate.

4.       More targeted health campaigns and interventions / Devising a questionnaire that asks people about the activities they engage in without them realizing they are actually revealing their personality / Make light of

Saturday, May 20, 2017

WE HAVE STILL NOT FOUND THE MISSING LINK BETWEEN US AND APES


“There was once an animal that was an ancestor to both humans and apes. But what was it like?”
By: Colin Barras
Level of difficulty: ** This is a more challenging task due to its length and subject matter so don't make it the first task you do at this level.
TEST YOURSELF
·         Proof of evolution that you can find on your body https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFxu7NEoKC8
BEFORE YOU READ
·         What will humans look like in the year 5000 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UH0hoViifJI
QUESTIONS
1.       Start reading the text and decide which paragraphs form the introduction. Now answer the questions on this section:
·         Charles Darwin’s missing person’s inquiry was very difficult because…
·         Charles Darwin set off a chain reaction when he published his theory of evolution. Step one accepting that……….Step two was that there had to exist both ……….and………..
·         Which of the following subtitles would fit this section: the search for the missing link / Darwin sets the ball rolling / Opening a can of worms / In search of LCA
2.       Where does the first section of the development start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         Rephrase the following to eliminate the pronoun: “This categorization”.
·         Huxley based the deductions he made concerning the origins of man on….(tweak the text)
·         How would you best replace “This” in the phrase “ This led to some very particular ideas…”?
·         What qualities was it assumed that LCA had that modern humans don’t have?
·         The above qualities were believed to have led to…
·         What subtitle would you give this section: Monkey business / Huxley explains / Our brothers and sisters / Evolution acts in mysterious ways.
3.       Where does the next section of the development start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         Early beliefs as to who exactly LCA was seem to have had a scientific basis / a rational basis / a superficial basis / an emotional basis.
·         What seemingly illogical conclusion did Strauss reach concerning humans?
·         Straus based his above opinion on the fact that…
·         What was the significance of Sraus’ views? The realization that …
·         What likely description of LCA did Straus make?
·         What subtitle would best fit this section: Straus stirs the pot / Answering back / Many more theories / Humans and evolution.
4.       Where does the next section of the development start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         How would you replace the phrase “this uncertainty”?
·         The return to the chimpanzee and bonobos as the human “sister species” was due to the theory ….
·         How did Zukerkandl reach the conclusion that humans and gorillas last shared a common ancestor 11 million years ago? By noting both……….and…..
·         The idea of the molecular clock gained traction thanks to….
5.       Where does the next section of the development start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         The theory that Ramapithecus was a direct human ancestor was deemed inconclusive because…
·         It made sense that Ramapithecus didn’t resemble humans because …
·         Where, in the remainder of this section, would you slot in the following sentence: Huxley’s theories seem finally to have been verified scientifically approximately 150 years after his death?
·         What phase would you replace “This” with  in the phrase “This was not the only conclusion…”?
·         The assumption that the home of the LCA must have been Africa is based on the fact that….and the assumption that….
·         What would you make the phrase “The story” more specific?
6.       Where does the next section start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         What was the conclusion that humans did not evolve from a knuckle-walking LCA based on?
·         The discovery of Ardi was significant because it was an early human / it moved comfortably in trees like apes / it had some un-apelike qualities / it was extremely primitive / it was our LCA
·         The conclusions reached by studying Ardi were an overgeneralization because…
·         The contention that LCA may not have been chimp-like is based on the tremendous amount of evolution witnessed in apes / the surprising primitiveness of human hands / the evolution of an opposable thumb in humans.
·         We understand from this section that the idea of the chimp-like LCA has been mostly been disappointed / discredited / disrespected/ disavowed.
·         Doubts about when exactly the LCA lived arouse as a result of the fear that…
·         The fact that an early relative of the gorilla has been found may indicate that the LCA may have lived a lot later / a lot earlier / around the same time.
·         What conclusion can be reached concerning the LCA from your reading of the text?
·         All the different views concerning the LCA may mean that we may fail to…
WRITING TASK
Use all you have learnt to state your views about the LCA.  Remember to support your opinions.

WE HAVE STILL NOT FOUND THE MISSING LINK BETWEEN US AND APES, KEY AND TEACHERS’ NOTES
This fascinating account of the human story and where we come from is an objective scientific summary of opinions thus far. Although no definite conclusion concerning our last common ancestor is reached, the story of the competing theories is still interesting to read. It will also help students to learn to discuss issues they have strong views about in a civilized manner; an important life skill.
1.       As far as “…what it looked like and how it behaved” / He didn’t know when and where the missing party was last seen; he didn’t have photographs that told him what the missing person looked like and he didn’t have a name to put to the face /  Humans belong to the same family tree as all animals, a sister species and a last common ancestor/ Darwin sets the ball rolling
2.       Starts “Even before Darwin…” and ends “… walking upright on two legs, he wrote”/ The categorization of humans as primates / anatomical similarities between humans gorillas and chimpanzees /Adopting living chimpanzees as stand-ins for LCA /Brachiation and knuckle walking / Walking upright on two legs/  Monkey business
3.       Starts: “But it would be wrong to think…” and ends “…rather than swinging between them / a superficial basis / Humans were just not particularly evolved / Human arms, hands, legs and feet were not as highly specialized as we might assume / that humans may have split apart from other primates before apes evolved brachiation and knuckle-walking /LCA could have been a relatively small bodied primate than ran a long branches rather than swinging beneath them./ Answering back
4.       Starts: This disagreement…and ends: a direct human ancestor / The uncertainty concerning where humans slotted into the primate evolutionary tree / of the molecular  clock / the differences between human and gorilla molecules and estimating the rate that those differences accumulate / new fossil finds
5.       Begins: Ramapithecus was discovered…and ends… chimp and gorilla anatomy helped/ The conclusions came exclusively from a study of the ape’s teeth (is enough because the relative clause is non defining) / It predated the appearance of the human lineage / After the sentence ending “close”/ The LAC’ likelihood of being more chimp like /  Seven million years ago the European and Asian apes had vanished; chimpanzees and humans split at the same time / The story of who the LCA was
6.       Begins: There had been murmurings…and ends …in a bit of a quandary / On the fact that gorillas and chimpanzees evolved knuckle walking independently / it had some un-apelike qualities / it meant that there was a lot of parallel evolution across all apes / discredited/ the molecular clocks used to estimate when LCA lived were being read incorrectly /  a lot earlier/ there is not yet universal agreement on the LCA / recognize the LCA when we find it


Sunday, May 14, 2017

THE HIDDEN UPSIDES OF REVENGE


“Revenge serves a very useful purpose – even the idea of seeking it gives us pleasure. Why is this?”
By: Melissa Hogenboom
Published: BBC, 3 April 2017
Level of Difficulty: **
BEFORE YOU START
Watch, listen and take notes in preparation for the reading task
·         Clip 1: Is revenge bad? (Templeton Foundation) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hi-wcMbusM
·         Clip 2: The evolutionary origins of revenge (Templeton Foundation) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCXaDFUFT6E
·         Clip 3: The forgiveness instinct (Templeton Foundation) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpydvrO-z1A
·         Clip 4: Forgiveness and social development (Templeton Foundation) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MQ-H1I8WNw
QUESTIONS
1.       Which paragraphs constitute the introduction? Now answer the questions on this section:
·         What conclusion can be drawn from the abundance of works such as Othello, Orestes, Hamlet?
·         What are the developmental paragraphs going to focus on?
2.       Continue reading. Which paragraphs constitute the next section? Now answer the questions on this section:
·         What conclusion can be drawn from the statistics provided in the section?
·         The factor that enables people to go from being insulted or being wronged to the desire to respond in kind can be called…….
·         What does it refer to in the phrase “what causes it”?
3.       Continue reading. Which paragraphs constitute the next section? Now answer the questions:
·         How does the writer justify his contention that “Revenge really can be sweet”?
·         What conclusion can be drawn from Chester and DeWall’s recent experiment?
·         Logically, the placebo given in the second phase of the experiment shouldn’t have worked. But it did because…
·         Explain what exactly is meant by the sentence “And it worked.”
4.       Continue reading. Where does the next section of the text start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         What does “That” refer to in the phrase “That begins a cycle…”?
·         The desire to seek revenge can resemble an addiction in that…
·         That the desire for revenge has persisted in the human race seems to indicate that………….
·         The evolutionary advantage of revenge is that…
·         What widespread interpretation of revenge has McColough proved wrong? Revenge…
5.       Continue reading. Where does the next section start and where does it end? Now answer the questions:
·         Two groups of people have been found to be more likely to seek revenge. They are…
·         The fact that revenge is a knee-jerk reaction for some people even when the imagined rejection does not exist indicates that these individuals are …
·         How is it that self harm satisfies the need for revenge?
·         How does the writer justify his contention that “There is hope whether we are aware of it or not.”? By drawing attention to…
6.       Read the conclusion. It is implied in this paragraph that:
·         The desire for revenge has survival value
·         The desire for revenge has outgrown its usefulness
·         The desire for revenge demands immediate satisfaction
·         The desire for revenge protected our ancient ancestors
7.       Look back at the development of the text and give each section a subtitle. Select from the list. There are more items than you need. Subtitles in no particular order:
·         There is a reason for the madness
·         Revenge is bittersweet
·         Maybe they will, maybe they won’t
·         Retaliation is cathartic
·         Blame the reward circuit
·         Going from A to B
·         Quit complaining; it is all good
WRITING TASK
Use all you have learnt to write about the advantages and disadvantages of revenge. Listen to this public lecture before you do so:
·         REVENGE, FORGIVENESS, HUMAN NATURE, AND THE HAPPY SOCIETY: SOME LESSONS FOR LAW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSz2sG4iugI
THE HIDDEN UPSIDES OF REVENGE KEY AND TEACHERS’ NOTES
The desire for revenge is a very common theme in literature, mythology and history; not mention people’s private lives. This interesting text is a scientific analysis of the evolutionary advantages of revenge as well as the down sides. It also provides insight into what goes on in the brain and which people are more prone to retaliatory aggression. Women, naturally, emerge smelling of roses; sorry guys! Again it is text with lots of potential for discussion and a good writing task.
1.       The first three paragraphs.  /Literature has used revenge throughout history /The upsides of revenge
2.       The section begins: “Revenge is a powerful… “ and ends “I started studying revenge”/ Revenge is a powerful emotional trigger that mobilizes people into action. / psychological middlemen / the desire to retaliate
3.       The section begins “He set out to uncover…” and ends “…who had not been rejected”/ Rejection activates the brain’s known reward circuit, the nucleus accumbens / Revenge provides its own special form of pleasure. / The placebo group believed they would feel no pleasure from seeking revenge./ After having the opportunity to get revenge, the rejected individuals scored the same on mood tests as those who had not been rejected.
4.       The section begins: “This finding, however,…” and ends “….curtail their desire for revenge”/ Feeling good / those who seek it fail to anticipate disastrous personal consequences. / Revenge serves a very useful purpose. /It works as a deterrent./ Is not the product of afflicted minds.
5.       It starts “It might be comforting to know…” and ends “… we are aware of it or not”. / Men and those with higher levels of rejection sensitivity / more neurotic, anxious and depressed/ Self harm makes people feel they are in control of something. /Our very sophisticated pre-frontal cortex that can inhibit impulsive behavior and guide the desire for retaliatory aggression to more social outcomes.
6.       The second
7.       Maybe they will, maybe they won’t = Section 5 / There is a reason for the madness= Section 4 / Blame the reward circuit= Section 3 / Going from A to B. The first section is the introduction and the last paragraph is the conclusion.



Thursday, May 11, 2017

THE ADVANTAGES OF A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR


The importance of having a good sense of humour is often underestimated but in fact,it is vital for the continued well-being of an individual. Do your research and find out why. When you are ready, write an essay discussing the advantages you have discovered.
Take the test:
·         The Sense of humour test http://www.queendom.com/queendom_tests/transfer
Famiarise yourself with the issue
·         Psychology of Humour https://prezi.com/ml6pmpreghkr/psychology-of-humor/ 
·         30 Benefits of humour at work http://www.humorthatworks.com/benefits/30-benefits-of-humor-at-work/ 
Reading material to make notes on
·         A good sense of humour is a sign of psychological health  https://qz.com/768622/a-good-sense-of-humor-is-a-sign-of-psychological-health/ 
Videos to take notes from
·         Develop a sense of humour https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6vOTJjjCQ0
·         Humor at work | Andrew Tarvin | TEDxOhioStateUniversity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iFCm5ZokBI
·         Using Humor to Communicate: Naveed Mahbub at TEDxDhaka https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeO701Zyjnk
·         How To Be Funny - Easily Visualized https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmrC6W5IgCU


Wednesday, May 10, 2017

HOW RICH ARE YOU, REALLY?


“They say comparison is the thief of joy. In a world where even millionaires don’t consider themselves wealthy, is the key to life satisfaction to simply stop lining ourselves up against others?”
By: Maddy Savage
Level of Difficulty:* This is a tough level *
BEFORE YOU READ
Watch the following videos and think about the messages. They will be important for the reading task to come.
·         Why we're unhappy -- the expectation gap | Nat Ware | TEDxKlagenfurt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KiUq8i9pbE
·         Happiness is all in your mind: Gen Kelsang Nyema at TEDxGreenville 2014 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnLoToJVQH4
QUESTIONS
1.       What illogical mind set does the writer draw attention to at the beginning of the text? People who seem to be rolling in money feel…
2.       What logical conclusion can be drawn from the feelings of the rich as described in the text?
3.       The reason becoming richer doesn’t make people happier is the fact that the satisfaction derived from earning more money ….(Tweak the text)
4.       Why do rich people persist in an activity which obviously doesn’t make them any happier?
5.       Why is it surprising that the trend described so far is true in Sweden too?
6.       What is it that high earners who can’t get off the treadmill are unable to do in general?
7.       What major criterion of happiness do poorer people seem to have more of?
8.       Read the account of Graham’s research. Which sentence best summarizes her findings?
·         Money does bring happiness and the poor should be helped
·         Money does bring happiness but the rich can learn from the poor
·         Money doesn’t bring happiness and the rich have a lot to learn from the poor.
·         Money doesn’t bring happiness and the rich and the poor should learn from each other
9.       Check out how countries rank according to the World Happiness Index : http://worldhappiness.report/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2017/03/StatisticalAppendixWHR2017.pdf  What attitude helped Nepal clime eight spots in the world happiness index of 2017? The tendency to…
10.   Experts are optimistic about the millenials although they seem to be unable to acquire the widely accepted tokens of wealth because…
11.   Go to the Key Findings of the US Department of commerce, scroll down to page two and study the key findings https://eventbrite-s3.s3.amazonaws.com/marketing/Millennials_Research/Gen_PR_Final.pdf The findings indicate a shift in world view: for millenials…
12.   Why did Eileen Cho refuse to invest in a home of her own? Because otherwise …(Tweak the text)
13.   What is the take home point from the text?
WRITING TASK
Benefit from all you have read and listened to write about how to be happy and why some people just cannot be happy.
HOW RICH ARE YOU, REALLY? KEY AND TEACHERS’ NOTES
This relatively simple text is all about a profound topic: the relationship between money and happiness. The writing task draws on the videos and the reading task.
1.       They haven’t made it / they are not wealthy
2.       If we are unlikely to feel rich, no matter how much we earn, it is not really worth aspiring to get there at all.
3.       Stops increasing at some stage/ Doesn’t increase any longer at some stage
4.       Because rich people, just as the less well off, make upwards comparisons (You don’t need to write the rest)
5.       Because Sweden is a social democracy famed for work life balance rather than excess
6.       Live in the moment
7.       Societal capital
8.       The second
9.        Make downward comparisons
10.   This generation may show fewer of the negative effects of wealth(such as selfishness, narcissm and a high sense of entitlement)
11.   Making memories is more important than making money
12.   She wouldn’t have money for one trip a month

13.   People need to work out what’s right for them as individuals and learn to be happy with the really small things in life